a trouble trip

my sister called me just now
she told me that my brother just return ipoh after 10th December
wth!!! that meant i can't follow his car
and need to return ipoh by bus by myself??
i have few more choice
follow my aunt and friend back on 2nd of December
or follow my grandfather on 30th November
or my uncle on 10th December
but the 1st 2 are too early for me as i wish to go for 2 weeks
the last 1 is too late for me because camp committee meeting on 8th
how should i choose??
back by my own is the perfect choice but seem dangerous
OH GOSH!! I DON WANT GO ALREADY LA!!
MA FAN!! haiz~~
help!! who can help me???!!